Mmm... married young is not an offence but not at teenage age (if you know how to differentiate). That's why there is a difference ages group in the ROM list :
Group1 (below 18) - Teenage:
Probably not stable in everything, need supervision.
Group2 (above18, below 21) - Young adult:
Probably old enough to take responsibility but need guidance.
Group3 (above 21) - Adult:
Mature enough, self-responsibility.
We always talk about future but who can guarantee it will be perfect as what you plan. Life is very fantastic.
When a couple has the intention to get married in 3 years' time but has to brought forward 2 years earlier because of the little one... I think this can be accepted. They can still pursue their studies or whatever thing they want after that. Marry is definitely not the tomb of courtship. GX has a stable job and has a very close tight with his family. His young parents, sis, bro are very supportive. I believe I can hand my baobei to GX who is 5 years older than her.
I told my colleague, AP that if I can live up to 60, I think it's good enough. Oh, maybe God heard my prayers and gives me a grandchild at this age... who knows.
I know a lot of people (including close relatives) out there has a lot of comments but that will not border us.
We have relative who is married for years but cannot have babies, we have relative who is still single at the age of 40.... so what to compare? I believe everything is fated.
As a parent, I do not encourage but if things happen, got to find ways to solve. If in the eyes of law, this is acceptable, why dont we just accept it. She is getting more mature after marriage. Her route for future will be a bit tougher than others but she will have the joy of family that others do not have. As long as I'm around, I will guide her along the way.
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