Had a family gathering at chalet @ Safra Country Club yesterday. It's fun. Baobei told me that her friends said that I am very cool in their eyes... 'cos I go clubbing. Hahaha, is that so? Even Javier also said that in the tag.

I'm just experiencing what the teenagers do these days. Although I used to go clubbing in my early 20 (when I was doing sales) but that was totally different from those days. The life, the atmophere, the music is totally different. It's alright to go... just take care of yourselves and be smart & alert at all times.

I grow up with my children. I told baobei that I felt very tired the very next day after clubbing, she taught me a way to overcome it and I think it works. My mj friends in their late 40 & early 50 are always complaining about their children and that makes me wanting to understand teenagers more.

To my children, I maybe a bit naggy at times but I think this is the only thing that parents can do. We can't simply ignore, scold or cane them. Laogong always reminds me that they are already grown up and we have to treat them as young adults. We got to let them decide what they want to be and then guide them.