Laogong is under pressure and stress, I know.
He woke up at 5am, sitting on the bed with his heavy head, I knew he was thinking of something.

I asked him: "What are you so early? it's only 5am leh!"
He answered: "Oh, I thought it's already 6am."
He lay back to his bed with his long pants and his eyes open wide.

So I got up and washed up, get changed and then off to work in the blackness... much earlier then my normal time at 7.30am. As usual, we went for coffee before heading to work.

He is having stress with his mom's sickness (Dementia).
Having so many brothers & sisters and nobody can help us at all.

She can't even recognise her own husband. She keeps coming to my room asking who is that man in her room and talking nonsense like.... "why is he here in my room", "did you see my mother", "where are all the kids"...
The old folks can fried salted fish with all the windows closed and they both enjoy the smell.... OMG, I nearly fainted last evening when I got back home after work.

We are both getting tired... both physically and mentally. I know I shouldn't be complaining here but what can I/we do to help all parties. can anybody understand?!